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Wednesday, January 13, 2021

2021 Year of the Cow

 

Happy New Year, Readership!

Just a quick post to tell you about the year of the cow.

This year, 2021, is said to be a year of the cow. You can also call it the year of the ox, bull, or water buffalo, depending on what part of the Sinosphere you hail from.

I've already written about the Chinese Zodiac on other posts, but the Chinese Zodiac was adopted in other countries of Chinese influence, particularly Vietnam, Korea and Japan, with modifications for localization. In Vietnam, the water buffalo is preferred to the bull, cow or ox, for example.

If you recall the story of the animals of the Chinese Zodiac, a race was held to determine the order of the 12 animals.

The cow was wise and started early, but the mouse was smart and rode on its head. As they approached the goal, the mouse jumped off the cow's head, taking first place, and the cow came in second.

It is said that people will take on the characteristics of the animal of the year they are born on.

Thus, according to Chinese folklore, people born in the Year of the Cow are said to be slow, but steady. As cows are beasts of burden, they are strong, determined, diligent and dependable. Moving slowly and chewing their cud, cows tend to be stoic and unflinching, minding their business. People born on this sign are wise, taking time to think about decisions, acting early, and being prepared for the future. But don't mess with a bull, or you'll get the horns.

Happy 2021!

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Tuesday, December 31, 2019

2020 Is Here

A bowl of "toshikoshi soba" (New Year's Eve noodles)

Well it's finally here. We’re on the cusp of a brand new decade. Much has passed in the 2010s alone, some bad, but a lot of it good.

For me 2010 saw the beginning of my new life as a husband. It saw the birth of my three boys and thus my life as a father. I discovered a lot about myself this past decade. Who would have thought that I actually love kids so much! Who would have known that I would one day be proud to be a dad. I found out that I actually love teaching kids English. I found that I can't make it as a car salesman, or a car encyclopedia.

I learned that I need to listen to my intuition. On more than one occasion, I ignored a persistent voice in my head, and I later came to regret it. That's possibly one of the biggest lessons I learned in my life; learn to listen to your gut. If something doesn't sit right with you, there's probably a very important reason.

Here is something more I learned; there's nothing more important than family. There may be a lot I'd like to do, a lot I'd like to explore and discover, but at the end of the day, family comes first. From now on, for every decision I make, I need to keep into account that I have a family to take care of, three beautiful, handsome young boys to see through. And, it doesn't have to be a complete sacrifice, my boys and I can travel this life's journey together!

Every day, I am amazed to see how much of myself I see in my children, how much they take after me. Without my prompting, my eldest has gone through YouTube and listened to a lot of the video game music I love. Whenever I start humming some of my favorite chip tunes, my son starts humming along with me. "How do you know this song?" I ask. "I just heard it on YouTube." he responds. Kirby. Sonic. Link. Mario. My son knows a LOT of video game music without my guidance and I'm just blown away. He's a little mini-me. My second also joins in, and my 3rd is already learning to repeat melodies. In every one of my boys I see a piece of me and I'm just amazed.

Readers know the saying "You don't know what you got, 'till it's gone." I think I now understand what that means. I'm reminded of that here and there. Sometimes you complain about something all day long, or you take something or someone for granted, and then it's gone, and then things are different and you wish things were back how they used to be.

I had a job that I didn't know I loved until I left it. Every day I'd complain about disagreements at work. It was rare to come home without some sort of problem that happened. Then I quit to leave somewhere else. I was so proud of myself for doing that. "I'm going my own way," I thought to myself. And then, as they said, it was "Out of the pan and into the fire."

I took a pay-cut to have my "revenge" on my old job for having "mistreated" me. "The job would open up opportunities for a more permanent position," I was promised. "You'd grow in our international department and do more than just teaching." The job sounded too good to be true, and it turned out I should have listened to my first impulse; it was nothing more than a glorified conversation school. Worse; I often had to babysit immature college students, some whom I wasn't qualified to deal with because they had special needs. (I'm an English teacher, not a mental health clinician.) To make matters worse, some of the staff made it a very toxic environment; an environment in which I dreaded coming into every day because you never knew what it was going to be like. And then, and I should have seen it coming, the contract was up in 3 years. All 3 years I was thinking to myself "I should have never left my old job. I should have stayed. Sure I had problems, but not as much as this. And I used to make MORE. WHY DID I LEAVE??? I was a stupid idiot." The last time I could remember doing a job was being happy, doing something I felt was rewarding and fulfilling, was at my old job teaching kids.

I went through a really tough year. After 3 years at a 2nd tier Japanese university (they wouldn't rehire me because of the strict 3-year limit), I took on a job as an independent contractor selling cars from Japanese auction houses to foreign customers. "We'll teach you everything you need to know. All you need is N2 Japanese skills," I was told. That the "company" was only like 4 people based in Tokyo should have been my first red flag. Again, more lessons learned. I now know what it means to be an "independent contractor." It means your job has no obligation to keep you and can let you go at any time. They don't have to pay any insurance or worry about any tax information; everything is on you.

Well, the Japanese was there, but it was evident that I knew absolutely nothing about cars. On top of having sales skills, the people at the company I worked for briefly actually, really wanted someone who was car encyclopedia. And by car encyclopedia, I mean knowing cars by manufacturer, model, year, what problems it was prone to, what modifications people tended to make to them, what market there was for them etc. I thought I made it very clear from the beginning that I was not a car guy, but even so, after only 2 weeks, they started talking to me about "letting me go." For a second time, a job wasn’t actually what was advertised. Why did I ignore all the red flags? I was desperate, that’s why.

I didn't know what to do. With 3 boys and a mortgage, I seriously was contemplating the thought of suicide. Not even a month into the fiscal year, what was I going to do? All Japanese companies and schools usually hire well in advance before the start of the fiscal year, on April 1st. After that, few to no companies hire. Anyone looking to hire was probably desperate, which probably means something is wrong with the job conditions. I needed to find something and take what I found for now. Serious hiring doesn’t start until a few months before next April. I was seriously up a creek.

Luckily, my wife was understanding, and she was there the whole way. I applied for unemployment benefits and started "pounding the pavement" as they say. I applied here and there and went to different interviews until I finally decided on a conversation school. Gratefully, one of the interviewers saw my plight and saw that I could work out at his company, so after long last I finally had a source of income. It wasn't what I was making at my previous job, or the job before, but it was something to keep my family afloat for a while.

My new job barely payed, with meager raises every year based on performance. Most days I started at 9, sometimes 8, and I got home at 7 at the earliest, with swaths of unpaid time, up to four hours, in the middle of the day, because few people come in for lessons in the afternoon. It had minimal vacation time, and to top things off, I had an uneven schedule, working Saturdays and having Sunday and Thursday off. It made me miss my days as a teacher, when I had all of Summer and the Winter Break, not to mention most weekends off. I couldn’t complain, though, because the job was saving me and my family that year. The job did have insurance benefits and minor perks, like discounts at hotels. But I knew I just couldn’t stay here for too long. Thinks were looking rather bleak, and then a miracle happened.

Luckily, I kept in touch with a person at my old, old job, the job I wish I never left, and he started telling me about how the school was planning to expand, and that there might be an opportunity for me to come back. We kept in touch, and finally, by the winter of that year, they asked if I wanted to come back. "You won't start at your old salary, but it will definitely be more than what you're making now. And, there will be a chance for an increase as our school grows," he said. I TOTALLY WANTED TO DO IT.

 I talked with my wife, who wasn't very happy at first. "You're changing jobs again? Do you remember why you quit the last time? I don't want you to change jobs again if you're going to quit after another 3 years. Do this only if you are absolutely sure that this is what you want to do." I said "Yes. To be honest, I can't remember being happier than when I worked here. I want it. I want my old job back."

And so, a year ago, I started working at my old job again. And here I am, one year later, SO HAPPY to be doing my old job again, making SO MUCH MORE than at the conversation school I was working for previously.

The moral of the story is, you don't know what you got 'till it's gone. Appreciate what you have.

In some ways, perhaps I'm grateful for what I went through. Now I know where I stand, what the job market is, and how good I actually have it. I hug my boys and my wife every day. Where I work, I teach English and play with children with a smile. Old staff and parents who had seen me before are so glad to have me back. How could I ever leave here?

Every day, I am grateful to be where I am now.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I'm looking forward to this new decade in 2020.

So many things are coming down the pike.

For one, I'll be starting my 2nd year back at my old job. SO happy about that.

We're thinking of FINALLY buying a Nintendo Switch and some games for it. I'm TOTALLY looking forward to FINALLY being able to play the new Zelda: Link's Awakening remake! Can't wait to play the new Smash Brothers, Splatoon and Mario Kart. And who knows what else!

But you know what I'm REALLY looking forward to?

Visiting the new Super Nintendo World at USJ, here in Osaka!!!




Me and my boys are going to make some memories!!!

It will be a glorious 2020.

2020, HERE WE COME!!!

Me and my family, January 1st, 2020

Thank you to anyone reading this.


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Sunday, December 30, 2018

Oshogatsu: Japanese New Year



In this blog post I'm going to post about Japanese New Year traditions.

This year is a very important one in Japanese history, because it marks the last year of the Heisei era. In Japan, along with the Gregorian Calendar, the year according to the current reigning emperor is observed. When an emperor is enthroned, an era marking his reign begins, and it is given a special name. When the emperor dies, the name of the era of his reign becomes his posthumous name. For example, the era before this one (平成 Heisei) was Showa (昭和), which lasted from December 25, 1926 until the emperor's death on January 7, 1989. In life, the emperor's name was "Hirohito," but after his death, his name became "Showa."

 Emperor Akihito and Empress Michiko

The current emperor, Akihito, has decided to abdicate and end his reign before his death, marking the end of the current period of Heisei. A new emperor will be enthroned, and a new era in Japanese history will begin. The Japanese government has announced that he would abdicate on April 30th, this year, so the Heisei period will continue until then. At that time the name of the new era and posthumous name of the next emperor will be announced, and when emperor Akihito passes on, his name will become Heisei.

New Year Observance and Traditions
In ancient times, the Japanese New Year (お正月: o-shōgatsu) was based on the Chinese calendar, and it was celebrated at the beginning of spring. However, in 1873, Japan adopted the Gregorian calendar, and January has been Japan’s official New Year’s Day ever since. In Japan, the Japanese New Year is the most important festival of the winter season, unlike in the West, where Christmas is usually given the most importance. Most businesses are closed from the end of December through January 3rd.

Preparations for the New Year celebration begin a few days before, as people traditionally clean their houses in order to welcome the toshigami (年神), or deity of the incoming year. This special cleaning is called ō-sōji (大掃除). Generally everyone from students to salary workers will spend their last day before the New Year's break cleaning their schools or offices.

Houses are decorated with traditional ornaments. A sacred rope of straw (注連縄: shimenawa) with dangling white paper strips (紙垂: shide) is hung over the front door to prevent evil spirits from entering and to show the presence of the toshigami. I would liken this to the western wreath.
 
 A shimenawa ornament


It is also customary to place kadomatsu (門松), an arrangement of tree sprigs, beside the entrance of a home. A special altar, known as toshidana (年棚: "year shelf"), is piled high with kagami mochi (鏡餅: flat, round rice cakes), sake (酒: rice wine), persimmons (柿: kaki), and other foods in honor of the toshigami.

 "Kadomatsu" arrangements are often placed outside of homes.
Apartment buildings often place just outside their entrance as well.

A traditional "kagamimochi" arrangement consists of two large rice cakes,
a skewer of dried persimmons and other auspicious items.

The eve of the New Year is called "Ōmisoka" (大晦日), and it is typically spent watching a special hours-long televised event called the "Kohaku Uta Gassen" (紅白歌合戦), or the "Red and White Song Battle," where singers of different genres get together and "fight" for a team. Female singers are placed in the red team (紅組, akagumi), male singers are put in the white team (白組, shirogumi). The show ends shortly before midnight, where judges decide which "team" performed the best.

 "Kohaku Uta Gassen" (紅白歌合戦)

Just before the old year ends and the new year begins, it is a Japanese custom to eat a bowl of toshikoshi-soba (年越しそば), or "Noodles for Crossing Into the New Year." Noodles symbolize "long life," and particularly in the case of toshikoshi-soba, it has this connotation of "connecting one year with the next." The bowl is eaten in hopes that the new year will also bring good luck and long life. Even in present-day Japan, it is considered "bad luck" for the next year not to finish all your toshikoshi-soba before the New Year begins.

Bowl of "toshikoshi soba."
 
The night of New Year's Eve, called joya (除夜), is often marked by a trip to a Buddhist temple. Just before midnight, people gather at temples to hear the tolling of a large bell, rung 108 times. This is because of the Buddhist belief that human beings are plagued by 108 earthly desires or passions (煩悩: bonnō). With each ring, one desire is dispelled. The low tolling of these bells can be heard throughout the country, welcoming the New Year.


 People gathered for the ringing of Joya no Kane
(除夜の鐘, The Bell of Cleansing Even)

The morning of January 1st is called gantan (元旦), and the kanji character used in the word looks like the sun rising over the horizon. New Year’s Day is also filled with all kinds of traditions. In most families, special dishes, called osechi ryōri (お節料理), are eaten. Many of these dishes are sweet or sour, and are served in special boxes. Traditionally, enough food is cooked to feed the family for a 3-day holiday period, since traditionally cooking was not allowed during this time.


Osechi

Eating rice cakes, or mochi (餅), made at the end of the year is also a Japanese New Year tradition. Although it can be bought at the store or made with a machine, many people still make mochi the old-fashioned way for o-shōgatsu. Pounding rice into mochi is called "mochi tsuki" (餅つき) in Japanese. Special mochigome rice (もち米) is boiled and put into a shallow bucket-like container made of wood or stone. Then it is patted with water by one person, while another person hits it with a large wooden mallet. By mashing the rice, it gets sticky and it forms a sticky white dumpling, which can be pressed and cut into flat cakes or filled with bean paste to make a sweet treat.

Pounding mochi in a mortar

 Mochi is also made into a New Year's decoration called kagami mochi (鏡餅), formed from two round cakes of mochi with a daidai (橙: bitter orange) placed on top.


 Nowadays, people don't have the time to make a kagamimochi arangement,
so people often sell little plastic kagamimochi with prepackaged rice cakes inside.

Another important custom is sending New Year Postcards (年賀状: nengajō) to friends and family. Instead of sending Christmas cards, like in Western countries, Japanese send New Year’s Cards that are guaranteed to arrive on the 1st of January by the Japanese postal service (provided you submit them a week before, of course). The purpose of these cards is to let friends and family that you don’t get to meet often, know that you are doing well.


 Various nengajo from past years.

Nengajō often feature drawings or pictures of an animal, according to the year of the Chinese Zodiac. (2019 will mark the year of the wild boar.) As the new year approaches, the post office begins to sell post cards in various designs, and even special blank post cards for people who would rather create their own design. Post cards are also available at grocery and convenience stores. Some portrait stores will print out cards with pictures of your choice. Some companies even offer online services for people who would like to design their own post cards. Some allow you to use your own family pictures.

 Small nengajo selection at a convenience store

All post cards have a special number in the back. The cards that are sent through the Japan Post are registered, and come the new year, the post office holds a drawing with special prizes awarded to the holders of the cards with the numbers drawn. Prizes include cash, travel packages, electronics, food or stamps.

The bottom of every nengajo card looks like this.


New Year’s Day is also a fun day for children, as they play many games associated with the New Year celebration. They also look forward to receive a small decorated envelope that contains a certain amount of money called an o-toshidama (お年玉). Normally, the amount of money depends on the age of the child, but often the same amount is given, if there are more than one child in the family, and parents might even give them to adults who are well over-age.


 Girl getting otoshidama from her dad.

Otoshidama envelopes come in many shapes, colors and sizes. There is so much variety that during the New Year season, stores dedicate entire sections to otoshidama envelopes.

 Otoshidama Envelopes


Otoshidama envelope section

Almost as soon as the New Year has been rung in, it is customary for Japanese to head for a shrine or temple to pray for the first time in the year. This "first pilgrimage" to a shrine is called Hatsumōde (初詣). Many believers are already there at a shrine or temple, ready to make their first prayer of the year. This is very popular, so temples and shrines are extremely crowded.


 People gathered at a shrine for Hatsumode.
 
People pray for continued health and safety, and often buy protective good-luck charms (お守り o-mamori ), and return the ones they bought the previous year.


 "Omamori" charms

At Shinto shrines, many people write their prayers and wishes on wooden placards called ema (絵馬), or pull strips of paper called omikuji (おみくじ) from a large box which have a prediction of one's fortune for the new year written on them. The omikuji predict how your luck will run in various aspects of life. After reading the fortune on an omikuji, a Japanese person typically ties it somewhere in the shrine, usually at a designated area.

Ema placards

Tying an omikuji fortune

The crane (鶴: tsuru) and the turtle (亀: kame) have been long-standing good luck symbols for the Japanese New Year. Traditionally, these creatures are believed to live long lives, the crane living 1,000 years, and the turtle living 10,000 years. These creatures symbolize long life, and for this reason they appear on much New Year decoration, collectively known as "Tsurukame."

 On New Year's Day, turtles and cranes are everywhere.

Also symbolic of the New Year, are the pine tree (松: matsu), bamboo (竹: take), and plum blossom (梅: ume). Collectively, these symbols are called by their old Chinese names, "Shōchikubai." Winter is a harsh season in Asia, being bitter cold and bringing with it heavy snow, so these symbols represent endurance through hardship. The pine tree is said to grow in very harsh conditions, growing on rocky cliffs where few things can survive, and staying green throughout the year. Bamboo is tough, strong and flexible, bowing under heavy snow, and bending, but never breaking, in harsh winds. It also thrives in any kind of soil and is continuously green throughout the year. The plum blossom is said to be the first tree that blossoms at the end of winter, even when snow covers its branches, heralding the coming of spring. Since the pine, bamboo and plum blossom manage to thrive in harsh conditions, they have come to be symbols of strength, endurance and hope.


Shochikubai - Pine, bamboo and plum

Imported from China around the 8th century, the Lion Dance, or “shishi-mai” is often performed around New Year’s to ward off evil spirits, pray for peace, bountiful harvests, and good health. The "lion" consists of a wooden head, or "shishi-gashira" (獅子頭), and a body made up of green cloth with white patterns. Depending on the style, one or two performers wear the costume, dancing to the sounds of flutes and drums.




It is a custom around the Japanese New Year for stores and merchants to sell what are called "fukubukuro," (福袋) or "lucky grab-bags." They are filled with unknown, random contents that are sold at a substantial discount, usually 50% or more off the list price of the items contained inside. Now a lavish New Year custom used to attract customers, fukubukuro started out as an ingenious strategy to get rid of last year’s merchandise. Today, fukubukuro contain a mix of random merchandise from the store they’re sold in. They may contain random prizes, such as vouchers for electronics, expensive jewelry, or tickets to far away places, truly making them "lucky grab-bags."


"Fukubukuro" or "Lucky Bags" at a store


Games Children Play at New Year's
 達磨落し Daruma Otoshi
In Daruma Otoshi, children use a mallet to try and knock out stacked wooden blocks from under a Daruma doll one by one without knocking him over. The person who can knock out the last block successfully, wins.

Daruma Otoshi
福笑い Fuku Warai
Similar to "Pin the Tail on the Donkey," Fukuwarai is a game where children take turns arranging parts of an Otafuku (お多福: Lucky Laughing Lady) face while blindfolded. The face usually comes out looking ridiculous, and the players can't keep from laughing.

Children playing "fuku warai"

 羽根突き Hanetsuki
Hanetsuki is a kind of Badminton game played with ornate wooden boards called "hagoita" (羽子板) and a shuttlecock made from feathers and a bean. Hitting the shuttlecock with the boards causes loud popping noises. There is no net, and the point of the game is just to keep the shuttlecock in the air as long as possible.

"Hagoita" racket and "hanetsuki" shuttlecock

百人一首 Hyakunin Isshu
Hyakunin Isshu is a Karuta game where a caller reads half of a Japanese poem, and players must search for the card with the latter half from among cards spread on the floor or a table. The cards are very ornate with poems written in calligraphy and beautiful pictures. It is a game of skill and speed, as players compete to see who can snatch up the correct card the fastest.

 Hyakunin Isshu cards


 People playing hyakunin isshu

Other long-standing Japanese New Year pastimes include top spinning (独楽回し: komamawashi) and kite flying (凧揚げ: takoage).

Japanese Top

Boy spinning a top on new year's day

 凧 – tako kite

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